Jez Sayin

Extraordinary Voice for Personal Growth

I’m not liking you…but I love you!

Trying to Love someone you don’t Like.

Love possesses not nor would it be possessed: for love is sufficient unto love” –The Prophet

Another way of putting it, It takes a fool to learn, love don’t love nobody.

We think love and like are the same, but there is a big difference. Love is unconditional but like, it has conditions. So before you…fall in love again, make a list of things you like, dislike and things that are deal breakers.

We have the power to control our emotions in every situation; it’s that split second before we open the door to our heart, so know the importance’s of dating.

People do tell you who they are if we just take out the time to listen. And stop being in such of a hurry to give yourself away…time is your best friend, so take your time and see how they handle life when it shows up…and it will show up.

Before you invest your emotions stop and pay attention, people can only dance the bullish dance for a minute. Trust what you feel…not what they say, everybody is not hearty enough to have a front seat in your life.

If you are tired of ending up with the same old s@#$, you will start by beginning to live consciously. You will take the time to know what it is you’re looking for in a person, and what you’re bringing to the table to share with someone else.

You must be honest with self, if you like to be shown affection, why choose some one who doesn’t like to be touched? If you have a great sex drive, fine someone that loves to ride….Know you and you will know what you’re looking for in a person.

The only reason to enter into a relationship is because this is what you want. Period. Not because you’re lonely,  needy, or you want to feel like you belong.

Remember: We attract who we are and not what we want. The trick is to like the person we love.

Im jezsayin…

1 Comment»

  mozayik wrote @

Yes, Yes, Yes, once again you have inspired and provoked my thoughts I love your words and the way you chose to use them. Most of time you say things I have thought about but have not verbalized. At lot of the time I may have said something you say but have said it in a different way. Always, I am feed with new energy to be my best so that I may serve. Thank you very much for allowing yourself to be used so I may grow.

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